
I Want To Dress Modestly But It Seems Extreme
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I Want To Dress Modestly but it seems Extreme
If you've ever considered dressing more modestly but felt overwhelmed by the idea, you are not alone, I too felt this. For many women modest fashion can seem like a drastic shift especially when we live in a world where showing more skin is celebrated often viewed as the norm. There's this misconception that modesty specifically means you must cover every inch of skin and this can be daunting for anyone who wants to start dressing modestly. But the truth is, dressing modestly doesn't have to feel extreme, boring, or a rejection of who you are. It's all about finding balance and discovering what modesty means to you. It’s a personal journey.
I am the founder of RIALine, a brand that understands modesty firsthand and supports everyone on their own modest journey by empowering a modest mindset. After all, isn’t that the most important part? By leading with this mindset, we can help provide a crucial stepping stone for anyone who wants to start dressing more modestly.
Here's how you can embrace a more modest wardrobe without losing your sense of self or feeling like you are sitting on the sidelines of fashion.
1. Modesty Doesn’t Have to Be All or Nothing
The idea that modest fashion is an “all or nothing” deal can make the transition feel intimidating. But here's the thing: modest dressing doesn't have to mean swapping your entire wardrobe for long shapeless pieces overnight. You don't have to dive into extremes to feel like you're honouring your desire to cover up more.
Start small by choosing one area where you want more coverage. Maybe you feel more comfortable in longer dresses but are not ready for full sleeves. Or high necklines make you feel more secure. Everyone has a different idea of what modest means it does not mean just one type of dressing, and that’s okay. The key is to remember that modesty is personal, it is not about fitting into someone else’s idea of what is “proper,” but about dressing in a way that feels authentic to you.
2. Modest Clothes Don’t Have to Be Boring
A major concern for many women when it comes to modest fashion is the fear of looking dull or frumpy. Let's face it: some of the images we associate with modest clothing do not exactly scream “fashion forward.” But that's just one narrow view of modesty, and it is time to break away from it.
This is something RIALine feels very strongly about and is one of the very reasons the brand founded. RIALine recognises that modest fashion does not always follow mainstream trends and in reality women all over the world style their own outfits by running between the two fashion worlds to achieve a look that is not only current but also modest. RIALine wants to make it easier for modest women to access mainstream trends by saving you the time and money this running around takes. We believe you too should have equal access to fashion.
RIALine believes it is possible to be fashionable without compromising your personal values and beliefs. By providing vibrant colours and sparkly fabrics in maxi lengths modest fashion can be seen as something exciting to try.
3. Redefine What Modesty Means to You
When you think of modesty, it's easy to picture extremes, fully covered from head to toe with minimal room for personal flair. But modesty shouldn't feel like a one size fits all approach. Redefine what modest dressing means to you personally.
Ask yourself: what makes you feel confident? What are the areas of your body you feel comfortable showing and not showing. Dressing modestly is about finding a style that allows you to feel both comfortable and true to yourself. You don't have to fit into the mold of “traditional” modest fashion if it doesn't resonate with you.
The goal is to find the balance between the coverage you want and the personality you want to show. Your wardrobe should always reflect who you are, even if you're opting for more modest options. Confidence Doesn’t Come from What You Show – It Comes from What You Choose.
When society places so much value on revealing clothing, it's easy to feel like you're missing out if you cover up. But confidence doesn't come from the amount of skin you show it comes from the choices you make about your own body. When you choose to dress modestly because it aligns with your values or personal preferences, you are making a powerful statement about who you are and what you stand for. This kind of confidence is magnetic. It’s not about following the crowd or trying to fit into what’s celebrated in pop culture: it's about owning your choices. People will notice your confidence, not because of how much skin you are showing but because you feel good in what you are wearing. And when you feel good it shows as they say. However, RIALine knows not everyone is naturally confident and that sometimes you just need to take smaller steps in order to find yourself.
4. You Don’t Have to Change Your Personality to Dress Modestly
One of the biggest fears when considering modest fashion is the idea that it will somehow force you to change who you are. After all the word modest can be used to describe someone's personality as well as the way they look. If you are naturally bold, energetic and outgoing it might feel like modest clothing will mute that part of you. But dressing modestly doesn't mean sacrificing your personality or hiding your light. RIALine has some dresses that are only for the bold and offer coverage!
5. Its Okay to Feel Out of Place Sometimes
It's normal to feel out of sync with the fashion around you, especially in a society that celebrates less clothing. The pressure to reveal more can feel overwhelming, and at times, you might feel like the odd one out. But remember dressing modestly is your choice and your choice is valid.
You don't have to follow trends that don't resonate with you just to feel included fashion is cyclical, and while there's a lot of focus on less is more modesty has always had a place in style and it always will after all you can't beat elegance.
You don't have to feel alone or overwhelmed by fashion trends just because you prefer a little more coverage, there are lots of us just like you! Please follow @rialineofficial to connect.
Final Thoughts: Own Your Style, Own Your Confidence
At the end of the day, dressing modestly is about one thing: you. It is about your comfort, your style, and your confidence. It's not about extremes or abandoning who you are just to fit into a certain box. Instead, it's about finding a way to express yourself authentically so that you feel good within, even when it feels the world is pushing in a different direction.
Many women often feel that they must show some skin in order to feel attractive even when they do not really feel happy within doing so. It’s time for a change and to empower those that want to cover up more and live their life to the fullest without sacrificing fashion or themselves because it is possible.
Whether you are testing the waters with more coverage or fully embracing modesty the most important thing is that you feel confident and true to yourself in whatever you wear. Remember fashion is supposed to be fun and personal. There is no reason modesty should feel like anything less than that.
Be You. Be unapologetically modest, with all the attitude but no exposure.
Ria x
Founder of RIALine
Socials @rialineofficial